Jeannette (Jay) Groglio, a beacon of love and generosity, passed away peacefully in Rye, NY, surrounded by the warmth of her family’s memories. She was a resident of Rye living in her family home since 1962. Born on January 26, 1935, in Mamaroneck, NY, the daughter of John and Katherine (nee Labrusciano) Rutland. Jeannette’s life was a testament to her unwavering commitment to her family, her community, and her faith. She was the loving matriarch of a family that revered her, a dedicated community leader, and a fervent supporter of local activities.
Jeannette’s early years were spent in Harrison High School, a head majorette, graduating with the Class of 1953. Her life took a joyful turn when she married the love of her life, Joseph Groglio, on October 13, 1957, at The Church of St. Gregory the Great in Harrison, NY. Together, they built a life filled with love and laughter, a bond that remained unbroken until Joseph’s passing on October 16, 1994.
Jeannette’s devotion to her family was unwavering. She is survived by her children: Joseph W. Groglio Jr. (Valerie) of Singer Island, FL, Robert J. Groglio of Westport, CT, and Paula Groglio of Rye, NY. Her son Michael Groglio and daughter-in-law Kim Groglio, spouse of Robert, predeceased her, leaving behind a legacy of love. She was a cherished grandmother to Joseph Edward Groglio, Michele Elipas (Matt), Katie Groglio (Alex), and Peter Groglio (Tara), and a proud great-grandmother to Diana Elipas, Alexander Elipas, Henry Joselow, and Madeline Elipas. Jeannette’s sister, Lola Grasso, her sisters-in-law Honey Anderson and Emily Groglio, along with many nieces, nephews, and cousins in the Rye area, will remember her fondly.
An avid spectator, Jeannette could always be found cheering on her children at Rye High School during their sports matches and activities. Her presence was a constant source of encouragement and support. Her love extended beyond her immediate family to her many friends, whom she cherished deeply. Jeannette also worked in accounting at the Mamaroneck Beach and Yacht Club. She enjoyed the camaraderie of the office staff and the serene backdrop of the ocean, which reflected her own calm and thoughtful nature.
Throughout her life, Jeannette was a pillar of her community. She served with distinction as the President of the John Cabot Association in Harrison and led the Columbiettes Auxiliary Edward F. O’Sullivan starting in 1985, where she worked tirelessly to uphold the spiritual, social, and charitable welfare of its members. Jeannette was also the past president of the Women’s Auxiliary and the Rye Babe Ruth Little League. Her innate talent for organizing and hosting fashion shows made her a beloved figure in local fundraising circles. Jay also loved going to the casino with her daughter Paula, son Bobby, Honey and Vivian.
Jeannette’s life was characterized by her loving, generous, and thoughtful demeanor. She had an extraordinary ability to make each person she encountered feel valued and loved. Her generosity of spirit was boundless, and her thoughtful gestures left an indelible mark on the hearts of those she touched.
The family will receive friends at Graham Funeral Home in Rye, NY on Friday March 1, 2024, from 4:00-7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Saturday March 2, 2024, at 10:00 AM at the Church of the Resurrection. Interment to follow at St. Mary’s Cemetery in Rye Brook, NY.
